HAPPY NEW YEAR! I hope you celebrated in the way that you desired! Whether it was in PJ’s, in sparkles, a suit, or dancing the night away.
I spent the night with my family and close friends and it was everything I hoped it could be. Anytime I can dress up, dance, and be with loved ones- I’m game!
I have been reflecting on 2017 all day and continuing to ponder on my vision for 2018.
And in all honesty, I was a bit overwhelmed today.
My heart has been processing all the loss that I had in the previous year and I began to miss people, miss moments, miss things. And you know, I don’t think this is a bad thing. So often we are taught to refocus when you think of the past, that friendship, or that ex. But I think we would be mentally stronger, more honest, and better off if we allowed ourselves to process the meaning of these feelings and thoughts when they happen.
I am not saying to dwell on it, and to listen to Adele… or to go look at pictures or stalk them on social media LOL but really…. Ask yourself, why am I thinking about this? Why am I missing them? What caused this today?
And here is what I discovered when I answered these questions today.
I am at peace with all the decisions I have made this year, at peace with all the things I have walked away from.
But 2018 terrifies me.
I am so afraid to screw it all up, to have a “lowest of lows” year, to stray off the path the Lord has set before me. And because of that, I began to think about this past year.
It’s so easy to miss the
old because there is no surprise in it. You know the in’s and out’s of that environment, of that relationship, even of those habits you hate. It’s like you can almost bet on what will happen next and how it will happen, you can probably go all in and win.
And right now, everything is SO new to me that I am unsure of what comes next.
And for a control freak like me?!? Yeah, no.
But there are a few things I know for sure.
The Lord… His plans are so good, and I don’t need to worry about what is to come because I am 100% sure it will be good.
Also…. Fear will not and cannot stop me from living this year. Although I am scared, I will do it afraid. I will continue to live my life without my past, knowing that it will be a good year, even if it’s not how I imagined it to be. Because on December 31st, 2018 I will still be standing, with my hands in the air, declaring that the Lord IS truly good!
I would like to share my word for this year with you.
I am not going to lie and tell you I fasted and prayed for weeks before the year was over to hear from God what He was speaking over 2018 lol not quite
That is just not how I do things (at least not right now because I am not that disciplined, yet LOL) But I do hear from God and I had a word that was resonating in my spirit over the last few days of the year and I am sharing it to remind myself and you the power of God.
: an act of restoring or the condition of being restored: such as
a : a bringing back to a former position or condition : reinstatement the restoration of peace
b : restitution
c : a restoring to an unimpaired or improved condition
I have lost (and gained) so much in previous years and especially in the last one. Some of that loss was mostly because of my own choices, which I will ALWAYS take full responsibility for… but it was also due to seasons, people, world events, LIFE.
For example, I lost a little faith in God. SO much happened in nature, in world news, in my own personal life, in my loved one’s lives… that there were many many many times I wanted to scream at God and ask Him, “what the heck man?!”
I also lost my vision for my life. I lost sight of what I am called to do.
And over the last few weeks, I have been dreaming and planning and receiving life into my heart.
But I truly believe this year, everything I have lost and everything I deliberately threw away will be restored. I know this one thing, and that is that God is faithful. The most faithful that I have ever known. Even when we aren’t.
And He takes every little thing possible and uses it in the GOOD plans that He has for us. I believe that He is the God who restores, and anything can be restored in Him.
Your faith, your hope, your health, your purity, your dreams, your relationships, your heart.
Nothing is wasted in Him and restoration is always possible.
Pray and ask the Lord to speak to you over your year. Your word or season may differ, but His hand is still over your life, just like it is in mine.
I can’t wait to write about the victories and losses this year and share them with you so you can be encouraged once again. I love reminding you that you are not alone, that we are more alike than you know. I will always be transparent and open when I can in order to bless you and bring you closer to the Lord and to your own dreams and visions.
Follow along as I testify of His goodness and His restoring Hand.
Here’s to dancing in His love another year,
Trust. Simple a simple word, but it encompasses so much. Letting go, for ‘control freaks’ like us is such a difficult thing, even though we know there are blessings at the end of decision. But the ‘not knowing’ is hard 😂 let’s pray for each other 🙏🏽
Haha yes agreed!!! Definitely 🙌🏽🙏🏽 Happy New Year!
I love that you chose the word restore. Apart from meaning to bring something back to its former condition, it also means to bring out a new and unfound beauty that was always there to begin with. Your words speak to me as I went through a long year as well. As adults we always have the choice to change ourselves and do more to mold the life we want and that’s what I want to challenge you to do every single day this year. Keep praying and following God’s word and never settle.